We are often contacted by women who suspect that their husbands are going to strip clubs. Their suspicion is often well-founded and is a habit that is destructive to their relationship and catastrophic to their financial situation. When they contact us they simply wish to confirm their suspicions.
Coming Home Late
The first sign of a husband who might be spending time in a strip club is that they regularly come home late from work. Late meaning after 10pm through to 2am in the morning. They will often make the excuse that they had to meet colleagues after work for drinks which is a necessity in their line of work. What we find is that this is generally an excuse to stay in the city after work to visit bars and clubs and then move on to establishments of a more questionable nature.
Women who don’t control the finances in the relationship or at least monitor the bank account can often be oblivious to the spending habits of their partner. But with a watchful eye women can start to see irregular spending habits at specific times of the day. Large withdrawals of cash from ATM locations near bars and clubs will be another tell-tale sign. When confronted by these cash withdrawals the husband will be unable to justify the expenditure or make up some excuse that they had to do shopping.
Engaging a Private Investigator
The call to a private investigator occurs after the signs are obvious. The women simply want to confirm that what they suspect is true. A private investigator can help get the evidence to prove beyond doubt that they are indeed visiting these establishments.
A private investigator can be both a man or a woman of any age that can blend in and act like a normal person also attending the strip club. They usually dress in unassuming attire so as to look like they themselves have just finished work and are also enjoying the occasion. The husband who is at the strip club will never know they are being watched by a skilful investigator reporting back to the wife their every move.
With the photographic and video evidence of the husband at these establishments the wife can now choose to either confront their partner or get their affairs in order. Essentially they will have the proof they need to at least prove that they were correct and not going crazy. Ultimately with the help of a private investigator to investigate the husband who is going to strip clubs the wife can get the upper hand.